In this video:
00:01:06 - Some Clarifications; Hearing paradigmatically in coaching (Paradigm based coaching)
00:05:59 - When something breaks off (the clothesline), the person is no longer on the train of that trajectory anymore
00:07:00 - Insight is possible at any thought on the clothesline
00:08:48 - An invitation to explore that perhaps when we have an end "in mind" on the OI trajectory/clothesline in mind, that end is the original/starting thought of that trajectory
00:12:34 - Insight doesn’t mean you'll know what to do instantly (paradigmatically)
00:13:09 - Henk asks Brett to clarify if there is a hierarchy in the 3Ps and paradigms
00:18:42 - Looking at the diagram for Trajectories; starting with The Psychology Formula ©️ and Inside (3P perspective)
00:21:36 - Inside-out (HEx perspective)
00:22:19 - Outside-in (HEx perspective) we split Power of Thought from Feeling
00:23:26 - We have thinking based on the feeling
00:24:09 - We are now going "Outside," and enter the world of duality (positive or negative)
00:26:41 - Thinking in the +ve direction or thinking in the -ve direction
00:27:01 - Whatever you’re thinking you are going to feel in the moment, because Thought necessitates it
00:28:03 - There's no end to the OI, so we keep "splitting it" (Brett gives examples) it is full of conditions!
00:32:25 - Highlighting the "Outside"
00:33:16 - Question for you: Can you have thinking in 2 different places? 🤔
00:34:32 - Evadne brings up time factor
00:35:22 - Brett asks us to consider location/locale; thinking is only ever happening in one place - Inside
00:37:16 - The implications of that the OI thinking is actually taking place on the Inside, not in the "Outside"
00:38:30 - In our world of psychology everything is happening on the inside and absolutely nothing is happening on the outside: There is NO Outside!
00:40:42 - The importance of the distinction of "Inside" and "Outside" being the 3P perspective and "Inside-Out" and "Outside-In" being of the HEx perspective (insight is realizing it is all Inside; "moving" from outside to inside)
00:42:27 - Why is it so deceptive? The key is how you understand feelings work. It all becomes about direction from the HEx
00:44:01 - There is a deeper knowing in your heart. And the more insight you have the Direction Inside gets stronger and stronger to you
00:46:10 - Ahuva asks Brett to expand on why it is so deceptive (like a fish in water)
00:49:36 - Ahuva asks Brett about the word, calling it an illusion (the Outside-in). Brett distinguishes this from the 3P perspective and then talking from the HEx perspective
00:53:15 - We are pointing to where their thinking is actually taking place with our clients, while respecting their realities vs telling them "it is just an illusion"
00:56:08 - Brett shares what he has come to learn with understanding this; connecting to the client while respecting their realities
00:59:29 - Brett talks about "trying to let go" from the Outside vs what happens inside and keeping the Principles neutral
01:00:30 - Barbara connects what she is hearing to and experience she just went through, and how feeling was no longer the come from
01:04:27 - How the thinking that "I don’t want to be OI," can take us even further outside-in, and how IO it is all feeling, no splitting of the feeling ladder
01:06:00 - Wrapping up with a recap